It is so natural to bitch and moan when we don't like what we see or are experiencing. I catch myself too. None of us are exempt. I think some of us are better trained than others and it is up to us to retrain ourselves - especially if our original "owners" weren't so eloquent. 🙂
So here is the thing...I used to tell my middle school students. "You know what I expect out of you. So please start exhibiting these traits."
Well America and the rest of the world for that matter. I now say it to you. Hey, don't worry I tell myself this each time I look in the mirror!